Being in love can be a wonderful feeling and a life-changing experience. However, when the person you love suddenly tells you they want you to leave them alone, everything changes. The awesome emotions are turned to despair, hurt and sadness. Your entire world will feel as if it has crumbled upon you. Basic instinct would be to go running behind him to try and win him back. Yet in most cases, that can actually makes things worse. Luckily, there are certain things you can do to make him come back to you.
Stop All Contact
Too often when someone tells another to leave them alone, the other party still in love will maintain some form of contact. Yet all that does is keep emotions alive for you. If you want him to miss you, then stop all contact. This is important not only for that, but also since it will be better for you. It will allow you to focus on other things down the road and eventually move on if you must.
Stay Clear of Social Media
As long as your ex sees you staying active on social media and other places, he will know exactly what you are up to. Particularly if you are sad and posting about it. Instead, stay away from it all, so he can start to wonder about you. At the same time, you can avoid the toxic things which comes from social media.
Hit The Gym or Do Other Activities
Boredom can drive a person who’s broken hearted insane. It can also make you over think about the other party to a point you may call them. Keep your mind and body busy by hitting the gym or doing other things. Once he sees how great and happy you look, he may just take notice. Even if he doesn’t you can go on feeling good about yourself; and looking great as well!
Avoid The Friend Zone
Staying friends with a person you are still in love with is a no-no. Would you keep a dead pet around you? Of course not, and being friends with him equates to the same thing.
Try Meeting New People
The best way to get over someone who dumps you is by meeting new people. More so if you meet members of the opposite sex. You never know what love may have in store for you.